Michael Yacoub News • June 2, 2016
There are defining moments in every person’s life. Most of us have on average ten defining moments…moments that have gone on to shape who we are and the choices we make. They can be fabulous events that we treasure and have been a source of joy for us throughout our lives. They also can be painful experiences that we have tried hard to forget, minimize or run away from. These defining moments stand out in our memory like a bright flicker in the deep corners of our lives shaping our thinking and moulding our experiences. We tell ourselves narratives about what these moments mean to us. We give ourselves an interpretation of the events based on our experiences, values and beliefs
When you look back at your life, you no doubt would be surprised how many defining moments you carry with you. These moments impacted your values and beliefs and steered you throughout your life’s journey and defined your personalities, and your outlook of life.
Take a moment to think about and recall a defining moment in your life, like an incident, experience or an action that had huge impact on your values and beliefs. For instance, a defining moment might be a partnership breakup, meeting your soul partner or a moment when you made a life-changing decision.
If the defining moment is an unpleasant one you would definitely want to get rid of it or replace it with a pleasant one. To do that, you should embrace a transformational exercise either on your own or with the help of a life coach. Try the following approach and record all the details as noted…remember, if your life is worth living it’s worth documenting!
The first step towards creating that transformation is by conquering your beliefs to obtain total self-awareness. Start your transformation by following these steps:
If the answer is no, then what would work for you better? Create new beliefs that are in alignment with who you want to be. Choose new beliefs that will serve you better and nurture your life’s journey, but above all choose beliefs that will challenge you.
Ask yourself this: What price would I pay if I don’t reinforce these new beliefs right NOW?
To Your Achievement of Greater Success – Michael Yacoub, The Success Coach